Now I’ll introduce you to the main theme of speed dating success...

...be a little different.

I already mentioned that most of the guys are not shining successes, so you don’t need to be. You just need to be a little difference. And that little difference will make the difference.

So dress well, wear something that will get you noticed... like a ring or a necklace... or an eye-catching shirt. At least look smart and stylish.

The most important thing you can do to prepare is in your conversation. I recommend getting the first 10 days of the 28-Day training program done. This means you will have stories to tell and confidence to approach, but more on that later.

What you specifically need to prepare for these events are answers to standard questions.

I call them rapport questions; the things people ask each other when they meet to find out how similar they are:

• What is your name?
• How old are you?
• Where are you from?
• What do you do?

What you need are several DIFFERENT answers to these questions that you can deliver to break the normal conversation she is expecting. If you want to take it one level further then also have a funny answer to...

What is your name?

• Kinghton, Knighton Whitehorse
• Sangahli Nagatorimawir, But you can call me Bob.
• Mr. Right

Here are some examples...

How old are you?

• 88, but I look young.
• 13, but I fooled them into letting me in.
• 25, I think (make it seem like you can’t remember)

Where are you from?

• Actually I’m a bum, but it’s amazing, you can clean up in the bathroom.
• Mars, I take it you are from Venus.
• I just came from that seat over there.

What do you do?

• I work in Burger King; I make important decision about cheese.
• Nothing, So I hope my boss never finds about
• I run a badger farm, I'm planning to open Badger World real soon

You need to have several that you are become comfortable with, remember you are going to try them out in another town so it doesn’t matter what happens.

You do need to be a little careful with this as girls often go to these events in groups so constantly using the same lines will be noticed at the event or later when they talk about it.

The bottom line here is that you need to be noticed and remembered as well as being attractive, if you are just attractive she can very easily forget you.

Think about seeing an attractive girl walking down the street, for a couple of seconds she completely captivates you, then after she has walked past and you are a few step further you see another. At this point you have completely forgotten what the first one looked like.