Placing a Photo

All Internet dating services allow placing one or more photos online. Do use it, since it gives you another change to make an extra impression.

Moreover, most women like to go for absolute certainty, especially on the Internet. And if you do not have a photo included in your profile, there must be something really wrong with you. So yes, even though you may be fat and ugly, it is better to put a picture of yourself online, so it reassures them you are not. (It's a funny world out there).

Take some time to choose a nice picture from your digital it-is-all-me archive. Any casual photo with your web cam shows disinterest. Be in the picture alone. And if you do like to show that you are social, use a picture on which all other people, except you, face away.

Using a picture with a female companion on it does not make women jealous and wanting you, though you or others may think so. Why? Well, many men go online on the hunt and have a girlfriend or even a wife sitting at home. Many other women know this, so a picture with a woman in it reminds them of this.

Use a picture that fits your style and mood. Bright and maybe scenic if you're adventurous, dark and mysterious if that's you.

Use a picture that radiates general emotion, be it passion, happiness, fun. An expensive car or 4by4 is not emotion by the way, at least not to women.

Some dating sites nowadays also offer to place online multiple photos. This gives you the chance to show some of your versatility in photos: you are fun and always different to be with.