So you've met a great girl, taken her out on a few dates, and things are starting to get serious. Now what? Is it time to pursue a relationship? This is something my clients ask all the time, because they're not quite sure how to handle it. After going for so long without women even giving them the time of day, now they've got an incredible woman on the hook and don't know what to do with her!

For some men, independence suddenly becomes their biggest concern. That feeling of giving up your independence is always a factor when you're considering a relationship, no doubt about it. But for men who have gone for extended period without a woman in their lives, they tend to get used to not having one around. They're afraid of going after a relationship because they're afraid everything in their lives will change because of it. These guys think that being in a relationship suddenly means spending all their Saturdays at Pottery Barn holding somebody's purse. It doesn't have to be that way – set some boundaries! If you've got a standing weekly poker game, having a girlfriend isn't going to make that disappear into thin air unless you let it.

The biggest concern I hear (by far) is that men simply aren't sure if they want to give up on casual dating. After being ignored and rejected for so long, the Instant Street Dating software gives men the opportunity to date lots of great women. Some find it hard to trade that opportunity for a relationship, even if it's not a “serious commitment” yet. While I can understand a man feeling like he's got a lot of catching up to do (I know I did!), this is something you really need to decide for yourself. Sometimes it's as simple as the guy realizing he's got strong feelings for the woman he's dating, but other times it's a big dilemma. Your newly minted skills in meeting women aren't going anywhere, but she might. At the end of the day, only you can decide if she's worth it.

Look at it this way, guys. If you're like I used to be, you struggle to get a date with just one woman. With Instant Street Dating, you'll be struggling to choose just one woman instead. If the biggest problem you face with women after using the software is choosing the right women for your relationships, is that really so bad?